Goodbye, friend. I think it's really unfortunate that you've decided to leave us.
It is the effect of unfortunate coincidences that your threads (among that of others) have not been seeing much activity lately.
With regards to admin processes, you were not treated unlike any other member. When I joined the site, I had my mistakes stated plainly before me, and it was all towards an effort to improve our experience around the forum. It is not the intention of anyone to embarrass you or criticize your work in a nonproductive manner.
The process is not instantaneous. In reality, we had had a close eye on each of your sheets for the entire duration of their review. Approval came late because there were things that had remained up until the last moment to be fixed.
As you can see, all which could have been done from our perspective was done. Given that you expect more, it is reasonable to say that this forum is indeed unsuitable for your tastes.
That being said, take care! If you ever reconsider, our arms are open. (: